Thursday, February 28, 2008

The Coconut Story of My Life


As a child I remember that when my mother goes to the market she always takes home a package of freshly grated coconut, or if not she gets a whole coconut from a store across the street and grate the meat the old-fashioned way. Old fashioned way meaning, my mother will crack open the shell with an itak (huge knife) ; grate the meat out of the shell with the pangkudkod attached to a bangkito (grater attached to a stool); and squeeze the milk out of the meat by hand. Since it was somewhat a tedious process in the past to get milk out of a shell of coconut, having a dish with gata ng niyog (coconut milk) on the table is like having a feast or like celebrating a special occasion in our home.

Of the many mouth-watering dishes with coconut milk that my mother used to make, three main dishes made it to the top of my list simply because they were the most requested ones by us the children. They were the ginataang kalabasa with sitaw and talong (squash in coconut milk with string beans and eggplants); ginataang alimasag or hipon (crabs or shrimp in coconut milk) and ginataang biya (fish in coconut milk). Toplister for dessert is of course ginatang bilo-bilo (glutinous balls in coconut milk). I tremendously enjoyed all my mother’s dishes but sad to say I never really learned how to make them. Quite frankly I never cooked at all while I was single in the Philippines, mainly because it was not really my cup of tea then, but also because my mother never trusted me in the kitchen just like she trusted my older sister ;-). Well, the one who spent more time in the kitchen turned out to be a really good cook and a marvelous baker. Of course I was not talking about myself, I was talking about my sister, lol.

I used to run the phone bills calling my family for recipe of Filipino dishes that I want to try. I always wanted to try a dish with coconut milk but felt intimidated by it for it might not turn out to be as good as my mother's. But my sister taught me how to do a simple dish of Shrimp in Coconut Milk and Tomato Sauce. She didn't give me the exact measurement for anything, she just sort of told me a story of what I should do with what, lol. I'm not as good as my sister when it comes to eyeballing so I tried to measure and record the ingredients I used, especially the spices.


Ingredients: 1 lb of Shrimp with shell or tail on; 1 can of Coconut Milk; 1 can of Tomato Sauce; 1 tbsp of minced garlic; 1 tbsp of canola oil; 1/2 tsp of hot pepper flakes; 1/4 tsp of salt for the sauce and 1/4 tsp of salt to season the shrimp. Procedure: 1. Season the shrimp with salt and set aside; 2. In medium heat, saute the garlic in canola oil until brown but not burnt; 3. Add the coconut milk and stir constantly until reduced to half; 4. Add the tomato sauce, pepper flakes and salt; stir constantly until the consistency is thick. 5. Add the shrimp and mix with the sauce, cover and let simmer for 2 to 3 minutes, then its done. Don't overcook the shrimp.

This dish is really very tasty and goes well with hot steamed white rice. My husband loves it and he eats it like appetizer. Coconut milk truly makes any dish delectable and appetizing; and very pleasurable to the palate, one will really yearn for more, lol. So that's the coconut story of my life.




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Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Did I Marry The Right Person?

I'm sure you have received this message as a forwarded e-mail from your friends. I received this from a friend in the same way. I think since we're still in the Love Month of February, it is still very timely to share this wisdom to everybody who are married. Let's reminisce the time when we met our spouses, how we fell in love and decided to get married. Have you ever asked yourself if you married the right person? This is written by Bro. Bo Sanchez.

"The Key to Succeeding in Marriage is not finding the Right Person; It's Learning to Love the Person You Found!"

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"

In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind. Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages break down. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The Key To Succeeding In Marriage Is Not Finding The Right Person; It's Learning To Love The Person You Found!

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. You can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... not just a feeling.

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Saturday, February 23, 2008

How Fast Can I Type?

I've been tagged by Barb to test how fast I can type in a minute, and here's the result of my test. I want to pass the tag on to Loannah, Debbie and Ricka. This is fun!

68 words


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It's Show Time!!

I'm not so much into reality TV shows but there are two shows that I really learned to love and look forward to seeing every season. When they are on I'm really glued on TV and other matters can wait. They are the Dancing With the Stars and American Idol. Being a music lover myself I love to dance and listen to different tunes. So obviously this explains why I gravitate towards the shows. This is really an exciting time since AI started already and DWTS is coming in March, wow what a great deal! Please watch the video promo of last year's season of DWTS sung by High School Musical sensation Vanessa Hudgens who I believe is half-Filipina.




One of the great AI auditions I saw was from Asia'h Epperson, she's one of my favorites to get to the finals. Please watch her memorable audition, she really made me cry here.

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Thursday, February 21, 2008

My Maiden Voyage

I love verbalizing my thoughts through writing and blogging is a great avenue for me to express what's on my mind. I want to dedicate this blog to anything that interests me and gives me high like - Home & Garden; Food & Entertainment; Cooking & Baking; Women's Health; Travel; Arts & Crafts and Current Events. I hope to give my readers an insight of who I am through my posts. This is my moment to exhale, happy reading and enjoy the ride.

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